Laura,
I'm sure that Heather was not being direspectful in any way. Thingy is a term we often use over here for something we cannot remember or are not sure of the name of. I would certainly refer to that Jewish thingy with all the candle holders. I never can remember its name.

So much for us all speaking the same language. There are many words and terms used in other countries who attempt to use English that I find very offensive, but I understand that they are only variations in the language. Not to worry we can still be friends and love each other regardless of our different modes of speech. *Hug*

Growing old gracefully is O.K. but growing old disgracefully is much more fun.